April 29, 2022

Dear Friends,

Money troubles can stem from our own lack of self-love and blocking the flow of money and other abundant blessings.  

How do you know if you lack self-love? 

Here are a few of the things that cause us to lack self-love: self-criticism, lack of confidence, and feeling unworthy of gifts or attention. Everyone will experience this differently. Even if you think you have self-love, there will always be another level of abundant self-love. I believe that if you focus on self-love, you will find that doors open to a more abundant life. 

How do you love yourself more? 

I find that if you can sit with your eyes closed with your arms crossed giving yourself a hug and remember all the times that you felt deeply loved. Who was the primary caregiver that gave you unconditional love? Then allow the oxytocin to fill your entire being with that much love and feel it until your heart is overflowing.  

Another way to feel self-love is that incredible “In love” feeling. That feeling when you have a new love interest or when you remember the 1st date or the 1st time you recognize that you loved your significant other. That incredibly intense love you felt with another can restore your own love for yourself. I want you to remember that you are worthy of that love and to give yourself that love every day. It is helpful to have others remind us of how loved we are. But it is even better when you can create your own sense of deep self-love. You will find abundance flowing to you in droves because of this massive amount of self-love pouring out of you. When you have enough love in yourself, you can give love much easier. 

My mom gave me that feeling of being deeply loved. When I had my children, they also made me feel that love.  Also, my late husband Richard had a habit of telling others how much he loved me, so much so that they then came and told me. I have been abundantly blessed with love! 

You don’t need to be special or extraordinary to be loveable. Love is the currency of the universe, or whatever name you call God. As a Christian, I grew up singing "Jesus loves me." You can sing it now, knowing that you are loveable and worthy of love. 

You are worthy of self-love just by "being". No special acts required. Unconditional love. Start your journey to abundance here with filling your tank with self-love. This will help you move up the abundance scale on your journey to a more abundant life. 

Sending Abundant Love to you all! 

Deborah R. Bowman, CPA